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Thank you for your informative site. I have yet to see a site
that is so explanatory without being vulgar.
- Praise the Lord Man
of God. May i say that me and my wife have read your book, Bible Facts, and
can say its a book that every Christians married couple should take time and
I'm glad more websites
are discussing sex frankly with a Christian perspective. I've been married
for 10 years and only now beginning to discover a happy sexual relationship
with better communication. I was raised in a very strict religious environment
and sex discussions and anything sexual was considered dirty and sinful.
I didn't marry until I was 29 and tried to remain a virgin only because
I didn't want God's wrath, even in regards to masturbation, constantly filled
me with guilt and worry.
website has been a catalyst in our Lord's hands to do just that...... very
candidly, forthrightly, and in a way that wasn't vulgar or pornographic
at all. I really appreciate how you base your answers and suggestions right
out of God's holy Word...... that's where it's at, and the only place we
can get reliable answers.
Thank you for an
inspiring last few hours of reading and learning. Some new information for
me, some eye opening and encouragment.
I am a 50 year
old pastor that promotes your Bible Sex Facts to couples during premarital
counseling. I really appreciate your frank open discussion on some issues
concerning Christians and sexual activity.
My husband and I
help the Youth minister and his wife with the youth group at our church.
Through Facebook, we have learned that some of the youth are AT LEAST “dipping
their toes” in the sexual ocean, if not swimming in it. The youth minister
and I decided to split the girls and boys and do series on sex on Wednesday
nights. I began looking for info for lessons, and I would like to thank
you for all your hard work. Although I will be somewhat modifying it for
use with a younger audience (6th grade-12th grade), this has given me an
excellent starting place!
Thank you for publishing
Bible Sex Facts. It is very informative and not lewd or sinful.
Thank you so much
for having Bible Sex Facts available to read. It confirmed how I felt about
sex before marriage and helped explain how sex will be after marriage. I
am a betrothed virgin; my fiancé and I are open and honest about everything.
Thank you for helping us. We were not having sexual relations, but we were
lusting after one another with excessive deep kissing and touching one another
over clothes. I realize now that that is sexual sin too. We have decided
that anything we wouldn't do in church is going too far! . . . It is very
informative and not lewd or promiscuous, but Godly.
I have enjoyed reading
your site and appreciate all the time and effort you have put into it. It
is common sense and biblically based.
I read lots of interesting
information on your website, which gave me guidance.
As I was looking
for sex-related sites, I came across Bible Sex Facts. It is far,
far more educational [than anything else I have seen] and you have realy
changed my life. Thanks for keeping it on.
I just want you
to know how much I appreciate your work on Bible Sex Facts. I am
a minister, married for over 25 years and in my late forties. My wife and
I have had a good sex life, however, I have struggled because during sex
I wanted to use words that I would never use outside of the bedroom. Words
for the sex organs of our body other than the biological terms and the "f"
word really turned me on. I had searched the internet, Christian Sex Manuals,
and could not get a clear statement on this subject. You finally resolved
this issue for me. Ever since I have read your article I am now finally
enjoying a fuller and free sex life sharing my very intimate self with my
wife. Thank you for being frank but Biblical.
First off I would
like to thank you for such a great text referencing scripture and modern
day practicality. Reading the text that you have seamlessly put together
has actually made me feel better in my strict stance on abstinence and celibacy
I recently stumbled
upon your site, which I find fascinating. Everything you say (even the things
I don't agree with) seem very well-intentioned...
Your website has
been a catalyst in our Lord's hands to . . . very candidly, forthrightly,
and in a way that wasn't vulgar or pornographic at all. I really appreciate
how you base your answers and suggestions right out of God's holy Word
I would like to
thank You for very enlightening information on marital sex life. We´ve been
married for 16 years, and God has blessed us in all possible ways. My husband
has been very gentle and loving all the time, but I learned some important
things from the site. Especially
the part, where You told (as the Bible says) that we should treat Christians
as brothers and sisters, was a very good advice and is simple to follow
Just like to say
thanks for your awesome no holds barred approach to helping us with sexual
practice that is good in God's eyes.
- Thank you for Bible
Sex Facts ... It is so refreshing to read and talk about subject matter
that is sometimes considered "taboo" in the church. It is very informative.
I just want to say
I've checked out your website and for the first time, I was able to find
practical biblical answers to questions on sex that have been on many christians
minds including mine...God bless you as He uses you to enlighten others.
Great website. I
have sent it to many, many friends. Thanks for the courage and effort that
it took to put it together.
- I am a Christian
and married for almost two years now. I have been having problems with my
sex life almost ever since I got married, with many questions in my mind.
I could find no direct answers in the Bible and am too introverted a person
to go talk to a pastor or other Christian elder about it.
I was losing hope in my prayers and yesterday almost grumbled in my prayer
when today I came across your website. I found answers to all the questions
I had and am really thankful for the straightforward and detailed facts you
have provided. I have also asked for forgiveness in my prayer today for doubting
God to answer my prayers.
May God bless your ministry abundantly and I will always
remember you in my prayers.
I am a Christian
and I am married. I have been searching the scriptures regarding oral sex
and I wanted to be in the will of God regarding this.... but if it was against
God's way I would stop. Your information said it wasn't mentioned in the
Bible and I feel relieved because I needed an answer. Thank you for being
open and letting Christians know that making love is wonderful and you don't
have to feel guilty because the older Christians taught it that way. May
God bless you.
so much for this website. My husband is a Muslim ... and it's difficult to
answer some of the things that he asks, and to give specific answers about
what the Bible says about sex. Yours is the most decent, least perverted site
out there precisely because you talk about the truth in honest terms, without
being afraid to discuss real issues. You are doing a great service for God
and for all people with this. I will be recommending it to all the Muslims
I know who ask questions on this, and I really think that this will be a witness
to them, as they will appreciate the frank discussion and beauty behind the
justifications (as opposed to the prudish or perverted explanations they get
from much of their own community, or the rest of the Christian community).
am a Methodist minister's daughter and am also a trained Stephen Minister
and Stephen leader/teacher. My website for Christian advice for women is:
www.hearthkeeper.com. Your website
contains the best advice I've ever read concerning sex. I get dozens of letters
from women who are too embarassed to ask their pastors intimate questions.
Would it be ok to put a link to your website on my Hearthkeeper page? I wish
every Christian couple could read your advice.
Just two words:
been searching for real, no-holds-barred, Bible sexual teachings, and your
ebook was the most explicit and Scriptural site I have come across. Thanks
for being so candid! ... I want to know what God says about sex in a Christian
marriage. Now I have something to study and to share with others. God bless
- Thank you so much
for the info. So many things I was wondering about because I just could not
see why it was wrong if it was done between a married couple. I was raised
in such a way that I thought so many things were WRONG to do when it came
to sex in marriage. But I just had a feeling it had to be how I was taught
that was holding me back. And it was. Thank you for freedom.
have enjoyed your website. Thanks. I am a newlywed...
am a Christian and I am married. . . Thank you for being open and letting
Christians know that making love is wonderful and you don't have to feel guilty
because the older Christians taught it that way. May God bless you.
we got married, ... I never felt like what I was doing was wrong -- even though
my wife and I were experimenting sexually, trying new things, and talking
about things on a daily basis. I assumed that the Holy Spirit was telling
me that *everything* was acceptable in a Christian marriage as long as both
husband and wife enjoyed it. It was a comfort to see that another Christian
had come to that same conclusion and provided Scriptural explanation to back
it up. Thank you.
have enjoyed your website. Thanks. I am a newlywed who is forced to be separated
from my spouse.
really enjoyed the site. It was very informative and helped me out quite a
was happy to find a Christian website devoted to helping us Christians understand
our own sexuality. I'm glad because I think its important for us to understand
where we stand in this day and age, and I find many of my peers are confused
on where healthy sexuality ends and where sin begins. I thank you for your
efforts to this cause.
adult at church who knows my family showed me your site - and I found it very
useful and informative. I'm a 15-year-old Christian, trying really hard to
"put to death" (as it says in the Bible) sexual thoughts and feelings.
sure that you probably get lots of e-mail about the quality content of your
Bible Sex Facts. I just wanted to take a moment to thank you, to lend
a little encouragement to a Christian brother … and to explain why your guide
was helpful/refreshing for me. It was a comfort to see that another Christian
had come to that same conclusion and provided Scriptural explanation to back
it up. Thank you.
have needed a site such as this for a long time! I was seriously considering
setting one up and having wise old people put good information on it... but
now there is no need! Thank you for taking the initiative on this issue.
[ Who's old?]
initially approached your site with practiced cynicism, intending to be amused
or even angered at yet another 'fundamentalist crackpot who's going to say
that sex is lights out, under the covers, man on top, get it over with quick'.
I was SHOCKED and GLAD that I was WRONG.
- None or very little
is said about sex and yet, I think it's the greatest reason many couples get
divorced. I think that it's time for the church and pastors to start talking
and holding seminars about this openly, because it is a big problem. It's
always treated like a SIN to talk about sex. I've learned so much... Thank
you and God bless!
- I am not a Christian
but I was really impressed about how you talked about discussing sex with
your children. I am currently taking parenting classes and we just discussed
this in class in the part about protecting our children from child molesters.
You give frank examples to real life questions that children will ask. I know
this because my son told me that I had a baby in my tummy and that it was
a girl. This was two weeks before I had a pregnancy test or even knew that
I had missed my period. He was also right about me having a girl. I have found
that children are very perceptive and to evade a direct question is to do
them a disservice. If they can form the question then they are ready for an
answer. You gave me answers to my sons questions and when my daughter is old
enough to ask I will refer back to your page. Thanks for everything.
of all, let me thank you for the very frank (and bold) discussion on the Biblical
perspective of sex. The religious world is filled with either silence or large
quantities of disinformation about this topic which seems to be a fairly important
subject in the Bible.
I just wanted to commend you and thank you for being
frank, open, and honest about a subject that many churches and parents in
the church avoid. I had been looking for answers with a strong Biblical foundation
and you provided that for me and I'm sure so many others, unabashedly and
unashamed. All I can say is it's about time and thank you, thank you, thank
you. Never stop sharing the Truth. So many people need to hear
- Thank you for doing
so much to educate people regarding God's law. I have learned a great deal
from your site and I try to share that knowledge with as many people as I
- Having had two
challenges recently as to why older Christians are not teaching young people
what they think they need to know about sex, I am glad to see that some Christians
are making an effort to minister on this subject.
- I'm finding this
site pretty educational. My husband should see this.
found your site while searching for information about my relationship. My
girlfriend did not stay a virgin, and it has made a lot of our time together
miserable, and I have had a hard time dealing with the thoughts and questions.
You have helped immensely, and we have altered our approach to the things
we do and say, and we are happier for it. Please pray for us as we make the
biggest decision in our lives-- to be married. Thank you for your informative
site. I only wish we had both found it sooner ... Thank you and God bless
Brother - I searched all over the Internet As a Christian wife looking for
Biblical principles about sex within marriage, and I got a bonus. The other
parts of your site were very helpful. [Children, etc.] Thank you for taking
the time to boldly go where no decent Christian website has gone before. Your
marriage item brought me to tears. I have always seen the scriptures and knew
the principles, but seeing them in writing has given me confidence that I
am not crazy (re: equal rights of wives and husbands regarding sex)....I only
wish my husband would realize that I am not a troublemaker or trying to "emasculate"
him by stating these principles. Thanks again for all your work.
- May I congratulate
you on a most wonderful, educational site.
- Feedback on a most
excellent web site. Very informative and right to the point. Thank you for
teaching us what the Word says about the wonderful subject of sex. I'm sure
I can speak for most people who have read your information when I say that
your knowledge is a gift God gave you to share with us.
- Thank you for your
informative website. It is refreshing to find teaching that honors God's guidelines
- This is a great web
site. I am a new Christian (8 months now), and I am dating a Christian lady
that has been a Christian her whole life. I have been wondering what dos and
don'ts there are. Some are obvious to me, but there are others that weren't
so obvious. Again, thank you and I hope others learn about this.
- I am a Christian,
and Spirit filled. I have read your web site and just love it. I have gained
some very good information.
- Just writing to say,
I 'stumbled' across your site and found it very interesting and enjoyable.
WOW!!!!! Thanks for putting it out there -- though I'm sure there are as many
who would disagree As would agree, I for one am appreciative for the forthright
and truthfulness you shared and am one of the 'agreerers'!!!!!!!!
- Thanks for giving
us permission [to link to your site.] The link will appear in our new issue.
- I wrote to you many
months ago, expressing appreciation for your site. I have been praying for
you regularly since that time. [I need all the prayer I can get. JFC]
- I have seen your
site for a couple of years. It has been very helpful to me when I was single,
when I became engaged, and married. Thank you!
- First, let me say
thank you. You have no idea what it meant for me to find your website and
finally get my questions answered. Thank you for reaching out to people. Because
if you were raised As I was, you could go through your marriage thinking that
most of what you did in your "marriage bed" was sinful. Thank you again and
[You're welcome! This is why Bible Sex Facts was written! JFC]
- Thank you so much
for researching and writing on this subject. I am a newlywed Christian who
has been having some trouble in this area. I had found the scriptures to be
difficult to follow in this matter ( I am a new Christian As well,) and it
was refreshing to find some explanations that were backed up with the Word.
It has eased my mind, and pointed me in new directions to study. Thanks again.
wanted to complement you on your website! Those are some real questions I've
wondered about and it's great to have a Christian Perspective. Thanks so much!
was truly amazed over the site. It gave very detailed information. I did not
realize how far my fiancée and I had crossed the line. We have not
had sex, but if we had continued, we would have that explosion from playing
with dynamite. I forwarded the page to him; he enjoyed it too. And now we
have a lot to look forward to once we marry. We see that nothing is exempt
when you marry.
... want to say how much I enjoyed both your articles
on deliverance and Biblical perspective on sex! Very well written
and based on the Word.
- This site was great.
The information provided was clear and detailed without being crude or distasteful.
The author's views reflect God in such a positive way that I believe even
nonbelievers would consider this information! Very well done!!!
was reading your articles on Bible sex facts and I think they are absolutely
wonderful. I like that you believe in equality for husbands and wives. One
point I wanted to bring up though was that, in one article you are discussing
the double standards about the importance of the orgasms of the husband and
the wife... Thank you for providing such wonderful advice to people, myself
have read your Bible Sex Facts from the Internet last month and I am truly
impressed with your coverage as you have answered some of my secret/silent
- I just want to say
that I am loving the day that I found this page. It is so informative about
what we, As "Christians", have run from so long. Things that seem to have
been hidden have now been illuminated. God be with you As you look deeper
into the word of God.
been looking for ways to explain my views to cousins and friends whose parents
and churches haven't given them clear direction. Your Bible Sex Facts Home
Page is a wealth of honest, direct, and scripturaly sound information that
confirmed my own beliefs and gave me confidence to share them with others.
have been impressed by the way the Bible Sex Facts have been presented.
There were answers to questions that I had and I was glad to find this web
wife and I have read your entire study on sexual intercourse. We are pleased
to say we have found it to be most informative.
- My wife and I are
devout Spirit filled Christians who have been struggling with our intimate
and sexual relationship for a couple of years due to some teaching we received.
We question what is right to do and what is not. I found your site "Bible
Sex Facts" today and was very interested to see what you had to say. I read
through your material and was very pleased to see that it was not your opinion
only, but was supported by the Word of God. I also searched through the Bible
references and lexicons to "double check" what you had written. I respect
your work, but the Word says to check everything with the word, so I did and
was pleased that you line up with the Word.
- I have read the webpage
of Bible Sex Facts and I am totally impressed with its content. I do
have some questions, please let me know Jeff Cogan's e-mail address. [firstname.lastname@example.org]
- Hi, I just wanted
to say THANK YOU for creating the Bible Sex Facts book online. It presents
sex in the way it should be. If only other Christians regarded sex in marriage
the same as you and I. I want to say thanks by letting you know I purchased
a copy and will link to this on bornagain.net on the quick links section.
- I have been impressed
by the way the Bible Sex Facts have been presented. There were answers
to questions that I had and I was glad to find this web site.
. . the thing that is so impressive to me is that the opinions expressed [in Bible
Sex Facts] seem so well thought out, particularly because there is emphasis
on sex for pleasure and not merely procreation. There seems to be so much conservative
Christian garbage out there, with these outrageous ideas about sex having no other
purpose than reproduction, and I think that those ideas are truly harmful. I also
feel embarrassed to be considered Christian along with them, As I find them so
reactionary and their grounded in very selective interpretations of scripture.
found your web site very uplifting and helpful ... My wife and I are both Christians.
want to thank you for your site. Never before had I heard of this stuff, until
I talked with my Pastor. My parents didn't want to address the issue and neither
did many people in the church. This along with what I talked to my Pastor about
answered so many of my questions and calmed my fears. Thank you for putting this
stuff out, I will tell everyone I know about this site. It's that good! I wish
that I would have had this stuff a long time ago. It would have made a great deal
of difference in my life.
just wanted to say that As a married Christian woman, I really enjoyed reading
through the online version of your Bible Sex Facts. It answered many frank
questions my husband and I had wondered about - things we had enjoyed, but other
"strict" Christians we know considered to be horrible. Because sometimes
it is hard to find the specific examples in the Bible, it is good that you have
compiled a number of tough questions and answers from a biblical perspective.
I will definitely recommend your site to friends - and especially to the
pastor of my church. I plan to read further than just the "sex" chapters,
into other areas that you cover as well! Feedback!
anything else, I would like to say that I am not a Christian, and do not personally
agree with many of the things said in your text about extramarital relations,
and so forth. That said, however, I was surprised and pleased
at the content of your text. Within a Christian viewpoint (As an anthropology
student I am used to looking at things from within other peoples frameworks) it
is indeed a very cogent and well written piece, and has potential to improve peoples
sex lives and relationships greatly. Since I read it specifically seeking to criticize
it, I think it only fair that I write you anyway to say I could find little to
criticize While I disagree with your philosophy, within the bounds of said philosophy
this work is great.
you so much for your web page on biblical sex facts for married persons. I have
been married 17 years, and we had reached a difficult impasse in our sexual relationship
during the last few years. Neither of us was blaming the other for it, but we
were technically separated when it came to bedtime. After reading your page, I
lost any fears/inhibitions I had of giving him pleasure in certain ways, plus
I suddenly clearly understood why his dabbling in porn videos & books was
hurting me so badly, but also why he was doing it. A well worded conversation
with him resulted in his immediately getting a trash bag and throwing away all
of the videos and books, and I felt like I had lost half of my body weight! Plus,
I was so eager to give him pleasure in ways that he had wanted, and everything
just suddenly fell into place. The past week has been like being on a honeymoon!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart and Bless You for discussing a subject that
is so difficult for Christians to address frankly!
you for a Biblically based, non biased, open and frank discussion about one of
the "hottest" topics today. I have book marked your site to recommend
to friends and constituents. Thank you very much for making my job easier As a
parent and As a minister. It's amazing how someone you've tried to help can read
the same advice somewhere else, and it finally soaks in or the light finally goes
on. It's so nice to have a place to send believers in need, especially since some
are reluctant to discuss this situation. Once again, thank you.
you for creating your site. I was raised in a Christian family and feel my faith
to be very strong. I appreciate the Biblical references and modern day explanations,
to help clear some old thoughts and feelings up that have been troublesome for
a very long time.
frank and necessary the information is on your site! It touches so many subjects
we are all afraid to ask, but need to know about. I have bookmarked it....and
will for certain come back for many many answers to my questions!
I want to thank you for posting this information on the Internet. I have been
searching for some answers, and it seems As though I have trouble understanding
what is meant by some of the things in the Bible. I try to read and comprehend
to the best of my ability, but sometimes I just can't see the whole picture.
would like to say that I am glad you had this on the Internet because I had so
many questions and no one to answer them. Your page was so informative.
I am glad I had a chance to read it. Thank you!
- Thanks ... for your
Bible Sex Facts. I am engaged and will be married in August. I think what
you wrote is a good guideline for us.
you for having this website; it has answered a lot of questions for me. I'm a
married woman age, 56 , married for 37 years.
would first like to say this is a wonderful site. I have been looking for a site
like this for a while. My husband and I are new Christians and I have had so any
questions about what is right or wrong to do.
have been visiting your site for quite a while and I must say it has been a real
blessing and help to me. It has inspired me to start a help group for Christians
experiencing marital and sexual problems. It's a mailing list called "Christian_Intimacy"
loved your information on your website, it was very informative.
- I'm a happily
married woman who works with many young teens ready to graduate this year.
I decided to read your section on singles and sex. I really appreciate your frankness
and clear Biblical stand. I applaud your not straying from God's laws. May your
site be used to encourage others to remain faithful, first to God, then to their
just wanted to say that I am a single man and have very high sexual standards.
I was browsing through your web page and was extremely happy to see that you are
representing the Biblical view of sex in all aspect, dealing with tough, real
areas and giving the truth in it's uncompromised pure form. Thank You and
may God Bless You for the work you do.
really am glad that a website like this was created. As a woman it is doubly difficult
to ask questions about sex and Christianity.
would like to thank you for putting this information on the net. I am getting
ready to teach a class on this subject to the women of our church. I have had
a overwhelming response to the class. It sure must be a need in the Body of Christ,
and I don't think it is talked about much. Again, thank you for your articles
want to commend you for authoring a page to help struggling Christians. It is
awesome that teens these days have sources such as yours to help them in their
walks. I wish I could have been able to have found a source such as yours when
I was struggling. I combed the Bible looking for limits and advice but found none,
and at the time I failed to trust the Spirit in me.
are a Christian couple and appreciate your openness to give advice in an honorable
way.. Thanks again.
am glad that I came upon this website because I had questions about oral sex and
you answered them.
thank God for what He's done through you for me. Your book was such a good help
and advice for me. I will get married on September 1, 1999 and have reconsidering
my attitude toward my fiancee because of what the Lord showed me through your
book. Thank you again. The Lord bless You richly.
you for having this book online. We will refer people to it. My husband and I
have a ministry called "Parents Praying for Teens". We need this type
of information to give to parents often.
job! Very frank and Biblical. Well thought out. You're right on about french kissing
and other forms of foreplay. I agree with you an oral and manual sex, As well
As anal sex. I will link to your site right away. You said many of the things
I'd like to tell people.
would like to say that your website is very informative and honest, thank you
for making it.
your Bible Sex Facts page. This is an area where people really need help
these days, the truth to counteract so much error and deception. However, this
is a very dangerous area to work in, I am sure, so I am adding you to my prayer
list and will be praying for wisdom for you in providing what will be right and
helpful, and for protection and victory over temptations that will inevitably
come to you As well.
want to thank you for creating such a well-maintained and informative website.
have been married several years. My husband and I are both Christians. I wish
to thank you for this web site. We have learned more from this site than I could
ever tell you. Questions of a sexual nature are extremely difficult to discuss
with our pastor and I tried once with the pastors wife (very uncomfortable and
equally unproductive). I would refer this site to other people but that would
be a little embarrassing As well. It's information Christian people are interested
in and curious about but too embarrassed to ask. Thank you
- You have a lot of great
information on your site. I have an abstinence website and I'm going to make a
page of related links and would like to include your site. If you'd like, you
could check mine out and perhaps link to it As well. http://members.aol.com/lntift/ej/Steps.html
------- Best of everything to you!
am doing a research project and the info provided was interesting and presented
in a wonderful entertaining manner. Keep up God's work!
- Thanks for your site.
Seldom do I find unbiased Christian information on sex. I'll be back!
you, thank you, thank you!!!! You have cleared up a lot of misunderstandings that
I have had for years concerning sex. I am a Christian and was raised in a Christian
home that was so sexually repressed that I was certain the only time my parents
ever had sex was on two occasions, 9 months before the birth of my brother and
myself. All jokes aside, I have found this page to be VERY informative and answered
my questions concerning oral and anal sex within marriage. I believe that my marriage
will benefit greatly from your very carefully researched advice. Thank you again.
really enjoyed your site. It made some things clear for me.
- WOW! This is THE BEST
marital advice I have ever read. All others seemed like CHRISTIANESE. I am so
tired of feeling frustrated and have experienced total aggravation within the
ministry, within marriage and this was and is a last ditch effort to find answers.
Finally, I feel there is someone saying some things I have felt. Thank you.
really found the information on your website frank and informative. I think the
information you are providing is much needed for Christian married couples and
found your website through IFC and have found it very helpful. Such frank and
open discussions of the Biblical perspectives on sexual behavior is important.
gave my life to Christ on May 10, 1998 and find this site very helpful.
- I stumbled
on to your page a few days ago and it answered a lot of my questions. Thank you.
My fiancee found it and told me about it. We checked it out separately.
- I am not
a Christian but I found the frank explanation of sex to children to be a very
consistent and honest means of dealing with the topic. Better than what I was
told as a child, namely that babies come out of the belly button. It caused me
fear for years.
must tell you that I agree with everything that you say here because I believe
it is totally based on Bible, even though there were some issues that I wish you
touched a little more, such as masturbation.
just read your page on Bible Sex Facts and was very surprised! The
page cleared up a lot of misinformation for me on what the Bible actually says
about sex and marriage. I always thought that being married to a Christian
would be a repressive and puritanical experience, especially for the female.
However, after reading your page, if the couple were to follow the advice, it
sounds like a most healthy and joyful experience. [It is! JFC]
- I have
found your Bible sex link to be interesting. The page has answered a lot of questions
that I have wondered about for years. My husband and I have been married for 7
just want to make a quick comment about the information on your website. I think
it is one of the most well written, informative, and lucid arguments about this
touchy topic that I ever read. I agree with every word written - especially the
chapter on single adults because I am a 27 year old single male. I have always
personally upheld celibacy until marriage. I also feel the information applies
universally to all races, religions etc. . . . I loved your Mercury car story
too - since I am a big car fan! I often use automotive analogies to explain "impure"
behavior to friends. . . . The facts that you presented should be adopted by society
As a whole - I am very disillusioned to meet so many young women that do not practice
chastity and purity. The mere act of celibacy could save them so much heartache
and suffering. . . . Your argument balances morality with health implications,
something that may help people see their own mortality and think twice about sex
out of wedlock. The information is practical, and discusses real life situations
such As dating and petting. The justifications and guidelines given are applicable
to real life. I felt that I benefited greatly from the site.
- I thoroughly enjoyed
your site and was genuinely enlightened by it. The Puritan influence in American
Christianity has made sex hard to talk about, but you have handled it gracefully
and tactfully. God bless, keep up the good work.
just finished reading through your work on Sex and am very grateful for someone
writing as openly and biblically As you do. I am a pastor and itinerant speaker
and this topic is one that I am asked to speak on very often. Again, thank you
for sharing your insights openly and honestly. Blessing to you,
- Thanks for
all the information on this page. Now we realize we need more communication in
our life if we are going to make it. It's so true that the enemy wants to destroy
Christian marriages and so again we say thanks.
- Thank you for all the
information I found on your page regarding Christian sexuality. It has helped
should be made mandatory reading for all Christian singles prior to dating and
at least once again after marriage. Thank you for a very excellent resource. Can
I add a link to my personal web page? [Of course! jfc]
only briefly looked over some of the information that you have on Biblical facts
about sex. I would like to say that it is a real blessing to see someone addressing
such a neglected part of God's Word. Keep up the good Work. God Bless.
- I really
am enjoying your page, and your encouragments to pray to God when facing temptation.
think the Bible Sex Facts page is well done
loved your book on Bible Sex Facts for married couples-- and those who are about
to get married. It was informative and also helped me to rid myself of sexual
hang-ups about what married couples can do sexually.
stuff! Sane and sensible! Thank you!
really enjoyed your book, and would like your advice.
enjoy to read Bible Sex facts and Demon Possession Handbook. I learn
a lot better than all books. It helps me understand better. I still study more
on it. Praise the Lord forever. I believe that your ministry is very good to feed
many people, Christian and non-Christian, about these needs. I know that God bless
you so richly.
just stumbled on your Bible Sex questions page. Bravo!
on your DiskBook site and for the courage you've demonstrated in tackling topics
no one else in the evangelical Christian community dares to touch. I appreciated
your frank discussion on sex within the context of a Christian marriage.
I am a parent of a 7 month old child, I found that your article was helpful and
well documented. Thanks for the help.
had just visited your page, Bible Sex Facts. It's really good. But I have
several questions, I hope you can help me out...
really enjoy Bible Sex Facts. I found it to be very informative and realistic.
Thank you for caring enough to publish this for all to use and learn from.
husband and I have really enjoyed the information in this site.... we now feel
enlightened by the information here. Also, we feel better equipped to guide our
children As they approach their teens.
take my hat off to you! I really admire what you are doing. Your book seems to
be what I need...
The Lord Richly Bless This Ministry!
you! And God Bless you for your web page. It is very scriptural and informative.
you for your site!
was great to find. My wife and I have a wonderful sexual relationship. We have
been married 15 years, and still make love almost nightly. ... Again thank you
for covering all these topics in this web site.
web site is very well done, and I am glad to see that you take stands that represent
a Godly view of most topics. The sexual stuff is important, and Christians need
to be informed As to what God says about the topic.
have enjoyed reading your articles on sex.
reading your information on Bible Sex Facts and was very pleased to finally
find useful information to back up my argument that birth control is not prohibited
in the Bible. I am 100% pro-life, but do not see a problem with married people
using non-abortifacient birth control methods. Other people in the pro-life movement
have problems with my view on birth control, and tell me I am going against God.
Thanks for the info.
regards and may [God] continue increasing your faith, love and devotion. We visited
your web site and praise [God] for your ministry.
wanted to simply say 'thank you' for Bible Sex Facts. I am a Christian
and open to learning more about the Lord ... looking back, I can't tell you how
much I agree and how true Bible Sex Facts is. I wish I had known and read
some of this material before. Again, thank you and God bless.
am a Youth Pastor; I wanted to let you know that I have added a link to your page
on my links page.
Sex Facts has been entered into YouthPastor's Resource Directory.
a Born again Christian for 22 years and married for 25 years to the same man,
I enjoyed reading about marriage ... Keep up the good work; I know you will minister
am glad to see the information you provide on the net.
want to say that I have truly enjoyed reading the article about marriage and sex
the Bible way. I believed these things and rarely found anyone who believed them
As I do. My wish is that you get this message out to many of the Christian marriages
that are still under bondage because of what some preachers are preaching to their
people. There needs to be more freedom in Christian marriages. Thank you so very
much for that article. I also enjoyed the ones about the single persons and the
children. Thank you again so very much for the time you spent writing these articles.
checked your page about Bible Sex Facts. I think that it has very good
facts and truths about the Christian way of life and hints how to make your life
think there needs to be more Christian Websites. Keep up the good work!
want to thank you for enlightening us to many facts about sexual intercourse in
a marriage. There were many things we did not know. Thanks to you, our sex life
will be more enjoyable and we will feel much better about the way God views sex.
Thank you again and God bless!
really enjoyed your web page. It answered many questions my friend and I had.
As a newcomer to the web, I am very impressed at the straightforward answers and
simple explanations you provided. . . . As a Spirit-filled Christian, I like the
fact that Christians and non-Christians could read these articles and get the
information they need without being offended or confused As to what God's word
says. Thank you for your bold approach and honest answers to these seemingly "taboo"
questions. God bless you.
wanted to drop a note and say you have a great Website. I'm a 21 year old male
who made a lot of mistakes before I became a Christian. Luckily God forgave all
those mistakes. Thanks for being willing to tell it like it is; actually, for
telling it like the Bible says it is.
love your Website's contents. . . . Generally, I'm not conservative in thinking
but I do agree with much of the stuff you say because the Bible says so.
you for your articles on pornography and sex outside of marriage.
of all, I need to thank you for the Bible Sex Facts you put on the Internet.
It was an answer to prayer and my wife and I have benefited from it. It confirmed
several things I was believing.
am very happy I found this page As I find I'm always struggling with the world's
view on sex and the Bible's view. I am a 23 year-old male Christian, and a virgin.
I totally agree on the things that are mentioned in the home page, and am very
much encouraged by it. It has affirmed my faith and my dedication As a Christian,
knowing what I am doing is God's will.
just thought that I'd say that I'm proud to know that there are some places that
I can visit and get good advice. Congratulations.
wanted to let you know I appreciated your advice on sex within marriage. Please
keep up the good work!
for thought. I was truly amazed by all this; thanks for the research
am overwhelmed at your web page and how much research must've gone into it.
read with great interest your web page. I found it to be stimulating and extremely
enlightening! Send more information to me please!
refreshing to read a Web page combining frank everyday issues with deep-rooted
upon your page by "chance"(?) Enjoy it immensely. Will come back often
to see what's new.
what I understand, you are the author of this web page, and I've found it quite
good. The information was similar to a book that friends of mine got us for our
read with interest your instructions to married couples regarding sexuality within
marriage, and overall found them to correspond to my own understanding of Scripture.
the other reviews of your "book", I thank you for your specific answers
to the questions of Christians regarding Biblical sex. Your scripture-based beliefs
are truly a testimony and, I hope, an encouragement to many, many Christians.
have liked what I have seen of what you have published on the web. I think it
is really important to have topical reference information, available from scriptures
on the Internet. God's word is infallible, and very important to our everyday
lives. "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge." Proverbs
1:7. "One sentence of Scripture is of more value than ten thousand of man's
ideas or arguments."--White
have been reading through many of the entries on the Bible Sex Facts home
page. . . . I feel you have done a good job on much of the page . . .
. . what I have read has been direct and to the point. Which I believe we need
to be. So I thank you very much for your web page.
help has been greatly appreciated and your web site made a difference for me Thank
you. (It's nice to be told when you make a difference)
scripture-based beliefs are truly a testimony, and I hope an encouragement to
many, many Christians. I agree 100% with your entire writings. It sounds As though
you have "done your homework" in the area.
just read your page and was impressed with your stand. I pray that your program
is truly blessed of God. I see so much about a "silent witness" until
nothing is being said about the Lord, so it's a blessing to see someone talking
about being born again.
just read through your two books on the website, and thank you for the work that
went into these.
intriguing, and I'm glad to realize some of the forthright support for sexual
behavior that I didn't realize was in the Bible (especially in the New Testament).
for . . . the information on this page. I'm a Christian man who is engaged to
be married. I'm interested in learning about this information from a biblical
standpoint without letting my mind wander to lusting and your pages have helped
me do that. It's nice to find a resource like this available on the Internet.
I may not agree with everything you have presented on your site, I have found
great value in a lot of the content. The site is well organized. I will be passing
this URL on to our local school for use in their computer lab
- I linked your site...
Have a wonderful day,
you for being so frank and free. We're involved in many situations of denomination.
The Lord is so awesome and powerful, because the high priest Jesus sacrificed
Himself once for all. And He lives!!! Thank you for your encouraging site. May
the Lord of Host bless and protect you!
a comfort to happen across your page - I'll be back to read more.
am a pagan. I honor everything on this earth. I honor you and what you are trying
to do and I think you are a sincere person. I don't have time for people who aren't.
I want to tell you that although I do not agree with everything you have said,
I found your advice on sex to be intelligent, sensitive, and well-written. I have
often felt sorry for Christians that did not have someone like you who was not
afraid to talk frankly and plainly about such an important subject. You do not
seem to have twisted the Bible to suit your needs, and I respect that. I found
this page because someone I know thought it was funny. I don't think it is funny.
I applaud your sincerity and As long As you continue to be respectful of the First
Amendment, I would die to protect your right to say what you have said . . .
I must say that seldom do I go to a web page where I so wholeheartedly agree with
the author!!! It seems clear to me that you are genuinely filled with Rhema and
you have a well-developed relationship with Yeshua. I am deeply thankful for folks
like you who have the COURAGE to take a stand for Jesus in this filth-infested
cesspool known As the Internet. May God be with you in your activities here.
for all your info. I'm getting married soon and some may be helpful. I'll drop
by again soon.
appreciate all you've done, and compliment you on your work on Bible Sex Facts.
It helped me greatly in interpreting some of the Bible passages dealing with sex.
I didn't realize I had so much to learn! Thanks again for your help.
- I stumbled
on your page and find this fascinating!!!! I've bookmarked it and plan to read
it later . . .
you so much for your Internet location. It is a very interesting site. I am impressed
with your desire to stick with the Scriptures in interpreting current views of
sin in our time.
I just wanted to let you know that I visited the WWW site concerning Bible
Sex Facts and it has dramatically affected my life and the lives of many people
I know. I am a Christian, but without clear-cut physical boundaries expressed
in the Bible, it was very hard for me to know exactly what the limitations were.
I just wanted to send a personal "thank you" to let you know that I
am extremely thankful for your time that you spent placing these documents on
the world wide web. Again, I thank you. Have a blessed day!
- Thank you for giving
to the Lord. And spreading His message.... With heart felt love and thanks...
Love what you have done here . All of this information is so wonderful for us
Babies in Christ! I have just been learning so much and I am so excited.
you for your support of the family today. Keep up the hard work.
Finished your book and loved it!
I have looked through your site. I think it is great you are trying to provide
some education on the Bible on the web.
am a Spirit-filled believer ... I'm new to the Internet and I was browsing and
found your home page. It looks very interesting to me.
just want to say thank you for the obvious amount of hard work to post all of
the articles and books that are on the Internet.
is great advice. Thanks a lot for putting it on the net.
- Thank you so much for
the helpful and honest views on The Bible Sex Facts page. My girlfriend
and I are planning to marry not too terribly far from now. We are both Bible believing
Christians and are concerned with what the Bible has to say about our intimate
life As a couple. I appreciate the downright bluntness in the explanations ...
being raised in a Christian environment keeps us from getting As much "education"
As others might in the area of sex, even between married people. It's not talked
about much in this strict southern ... community .... Thanks again for this page.
May God bless you and yours in the life and ministry.
a note to tell you that I ran across your Web-pages recently, and so much appreciate
them. I know a bit about the time involved in getting pages like yours up and
running, and keeping them running, and appreciate your efforts to ensure that
the Creator and Master of the universe has some representation on this medium.
Don't despair! We are promised that the Word does not return void
- I came across
your material Bible Sex Facts and I want to commend you on a job well done.
Your materials have been a great help to me.
stumbled onto your site and was very happily surprised. Given the area you have
created to maneuver within, given your (in my opinion) conservative and honest
exegesis, you have created an oasis where Christians are allowed to discover the
full beauty of love (within marriage). You are doing a great service in educating
those outside your community, but more importantly, to you own community.
a Christian and I believe in the things you've printed on your web page and appreciate
just wanted to say that it is great that there is Christian stuff on the Internet.
Praise God and thank you for serving him.
just got finished reading your section on married couples and I was very surprised
when you said you can use the F-word with your husband! It actually does make
sense, though; but it is good that you stressed only using it around one person,
your husband. Signed, You taught me something new
really appreciated the honest and personable approach that you took in sharing
what the Bible has to say regarding sex relationships before and after marriage.
I was very pleased to see that you were sharing the "truth in love",
the lack of which is-- I dare say-- the biggest reason that Christian ideas are
taboo in moral areas today.
great site. I will be giving this to our youth pastor at church. Thank you.
have a lot of good material in the Bible Sex Facts file. I trust that it
will provide some fine guidance and understanding to many.
I can not find other words for your DiskBooks.
You for your help. Your book about Bible Sex Facts is an excellent source
for clarification. Keep up the good work,
read your Bible Sex Facts. I appreciated your candor and reliance upon
the Holy Word of God. I felt that you were a bit explicit at a few spots, however
that is far better than being misunderstood.
thought the issues you wrote about, Christian sex, were very well done. It seems
As though sex is a real taboo subject in most Christian circles. Thanks for having
the guts to handle it in a right "non-religious" way, but a truly biblical
your web-pages ... nice job!
was delighted to find your very helpful pages on Bible Sex Facts. Thank
you for these insightful pages.
you for your home page. I am finding it very honest and informative. Many Christians
are too ashamed or proud to ask questions about such topics As you cover. They
will, however, read about them in the privacy of their homes.
- I appreciate that in
your writings you didn't assume a spiritual or biblical understanding on the part
of your readers. Your explanations are clear, non-legalistic, nonjudgmental, and
able to speak to the concerns of the average ... Sams of America. Thanks for the
service that you provided to me [a pastor] As well.
browsing at your site, I would like to request your permission of duplicating
your material (Parts 1 to 3 of Bible Sex Facts) [My answer was YES,
of course. JFC]
have come across your web page and am impressed with your teachings. You seem
to be contemporary, yet faithful to the timeless truths of scripture. I am a pastor
... and am always interested in new ways to get these vital issues to our youth.
Our church has a ... conference for parents and youth once a year. Several have
made commitments to remain pure until marriage and then to be pure in their marriage.
was at your web page looking at the books that you have on-line. I must say that
I was thoroughly impressed at the scholarship and accuracy of the contents. Well
Your page is fantastic. There are so many resources here, I hardly know where
to start! I appreciate the huge amount of time and energy this site obviously
took to put up. Good work! Definitely a bookmark for me and my family.
you for developing this wonderful resource page. The information is great.
am a television producer ... for a weekly Christian talk show ... and would like
information on how to reach J.F. "Jeff" Cogan, author of Bible Sex
and parents who are homeschooling :
Download the PennSTAR Master Curriculum
to Bible Sex Facts Home Page
1: For Children
2: For Single Persons
3: For Married Persons
B: What the Bible Says About Sex
C: Questions with Answers
D: Normal Is Better than Average
E: A Special Message for Gays and Lesbians